civver_764
Deity
The marriage rate is at an all time low, as can be seen here:
At the same time, the out of wedlock birth rate has skyrocketed:
Similarly, the rate of children being raised by single parents has also been increasing:
When I was a teenager, the message I got from society was that marriage was a bad idea. A significant number of my friends had parents who were divorced. I thought to myself, "what's the point?"
But, data suggests that children fare best when raised by a stable marriage. Consider the following:
So this begs the question, as the marriage rate continues to decline, should there be concern about reversing that trend? If so, what factors are causing this decline, and how should they be countered?
Spoiler :
At the same time, the out of wedlock birth rate has skyrocketed:
Spoiler :
Similarly, the rate of children being raised by single parents has also been increasing:
Spoiler :
When I was a teenager, the message I got from society was that marriage was a bad idea. A significant number of my friends had parents who were divorced. I thought to myself, "what's the point?"
But, data suggests that children fare best when raised by a stable marriage. Consider the following:
- Children raised in intact married families are more likely to attend college, are physically and emotionally healthier, are less likely to be physically or sexually abused, less likely to use drugs or alcohol and to commit delinquent behaviors, have a decreased risk of divorcing when they get married, are less likely to become pregnant/impregnate someone as a teenager, and are less likely to be raised in poverty. ("Why Marriage Matters: 26 Conclusions from the Social Sciences," Bradford Wilcox, Institute for American Values, www.americanvalues.org/html/r-wmm.html)
- Children receive gender specific support from having a mother and a father. Research shows that particular roles of mothers (e.g., to nurture) and fathers (e.g., to discipline), as well as complex biologically rooted interactions, are important for the development of boys and girls. ("Marriage and the Public Good: Ten Principles," 2006, www.princetonprinciples.org)
- A child living with a single mother is 14 times more likely to suffer serious physical abuse than is a child living with married biological parents. A child whose mother cohabits with a man other than the child's father is 33 times more likely to suffer serious physical child abuse. ("The Positive Effects...")
- In married families, about 1/3 of adolescents are sexually active. However, for teenagers in stepfamilies, cohabiting households, divorced families, and those with single unwed parents, the percentage rises above 1/2. ("The Positive Effects...")
- Growing up outside an intact marriage increases the chance that children themselves will divorce or become unwed parents. ("26 Conclusions..." and "Marriage and the Public Good...") * Children of divorce experience lasting tension as a result of the increasing differences in their parents' values and ideas. At a young age they must make mature decisions regarding their beliefs and values. Children of so called "good divorces" fared worse emotionally than children who grew up in an unhappy but "low-conflict'"marriage. ("Ten Findings from a National Study on the Moral and Spiritual Lives of Children of Divorce," Elizabeth Marquardt, www.betweentwoworlds.org)
So this begs the question, as the marriage rate continues to decline, should there be concern about reversing that trend? If so, what factors are causing this decline, and how should they be countered?