And this stuff doesn't even get you high?
Well, it's as high as you can legally get driving your car, etc. And I've certainly had (very fleeting) highs on cigarettes. Go a couple days without one, get cravings like mad, then put a Turkish Gold in your mouth, taking the time to hold it up to your nose and smell its sweet, sweet flavor beforehand. Then take out your zippo and light it up, watching it slowly catch and burn, but don't hit it just yet... wait a few seconds, take in the moment, and then take a long, deep breath right through that filter, hold it a few seconds, let it out nice and slow... oh my God, you're in f-ing heaven for the next few minutes.
I think most people pick up smoking because they don't care about early death, or say they don't, or just deny it all. I guess they really just don't see the consequences, and early, horrid death certainly isn't the only one.
The other thing is you must, in your mind, admit, you can NEVER smoke a SINGLE cigarette again, EVER. If you cannot bear that thought, you are not ready to quit.
And I don't mind smokers at all, or kissing girls that smoke, but I still get urges.
See, I quit the opposite way. I said, "you can have one if it ever gets too bad." It was the only way I could let myself do it, I had to let go slowly. But I went a few months cold turkey, then had a crazy night and downed about half a pack in an hour. After that, though, I only smoked when I was drunk, and over the years the frequency of that dropped off and finally I quit for good.
And I don't really get cravings anymore unless I'm walking behind someone smoking. It's been years since I had a cigarette, but I was walking past someone just today that was smoking... I couldn't help but enjoy the smell for a few brief seconds. You forget how much that smell, that feeling, that addiction, can become central in your day. It's like a connection with the world that is fairly missed once it's gone.
dont know about the us, but a single one still isnt that expensive in most of continental europe...
Oh, we've sin taxed cigarettes to hell. A few years ago it was at $5-6 a pack (half a Euro or so, I think that's the conversion now?), not sure what it is now. Still not that bad (a quarter or so a smoke), but the point remains that in no other global subculture that I know of do random people walk up to each other and regularly ask for free crap and expect to get it almost universally.