The "you" in my answer was not directed at you Bozo, but at you, everyone who place politics before famillyWhy is everyone always projecting? I must do it too I guess. (sigh) No Steph, Im not saying thats more important to me. On the contrary I think I agreed with you that marital status is important. As I said, I tried to think of likely answers. First answers. When asked 'What are you?' I doubt very much the first answer that pops into anyones mind would be their marital status. That doesnt mean I dont think its a perfectly valid answer.