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I think a Pimp Named Slickback would be a better source of dating advice.
While We Wait: Boredom Strikes Back
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Luckymoose
The World is Mine
His comedy is terrible and you should feel bad.
Luckymoose
The World is Mine
Well, it's a video gaming website, what did you expect?
Well rounded adults? Not everyone is you.
Anonymoose
KING OF MEESE
I would hope he's not expecting well-rounded adults. He must have been drunk when he decided to ask help of this bunch of whiny man-children.
thomas.berubeg
Wandering the World
actually... I was 
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Angst
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thomas, I'd just advise you not to care about whether you are unreasonable and instead care about your actual interests and then take an approach to ensure your interests. You have to decide whether you want to be treated a specific way or not. She might not bend. If you really require her to act a certain way in order to stay friends with you, you shouldn't blame anyone if she doesn't act that way - then you just don't fit together, not even as friends.
It doesn't matter who's right and wrong. It matters whether you'll end up feeling good.
A friend of me has to act a certain way - it's not like I need him to bend over for me or something. But people have different interests and ways to think of things, and when there's a conflict, you can compromise as much as you feel like is proper or you can skip the person.
I usually skip because I can pull it off.
It doesn't matter who's right and wrong. It matters whether you'll end up feeling good.
A friend of me has to act a certain way - it's not like I need him to bend over for me or something. But people have different interests and ways to think of things, and when there's a conflict, you can compromise as much as you feel like is proper or you can skip the person.
I usually skip because I can pull it off.
Very poor choice of words.flyingchicken
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Given the context, likely intentional and a thus a great choice of words.
Terrance888
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Pull what off? lack of friendship or...
confused
nutranurse
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If you want my opinion Thomas, just back off for now. Breakups need healing time when both parties just kind of exist in the post-breakup phase. Clearly approaching her right now cannot be done in a level-headed or even remotely friendly manner. Contrary to the opinion of a few people here, that whole chat-log had you seeming very aggressive, but understandably so from my POV because you're hurt and it sucks to lose someone you care about a lot and you're not all that willing to let it go that easily. However! Forcing anything at this point will see you losing everything, so do some 'me' time...
And write that damn update 0 >:C
And write that damn update 0 >:C
nutranurse
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Current NP universe in the eyes of the soon-to-be-dead Turtlings. Red is Iggy. Of course.
thomas.berubeg
Wandering the World
This week, I promise. I wont let anything distract me.
Daftpanzer
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I'm in! I'm playing a practise game at the moment, coming 2nd and not dying horribly, yet, so I think I have the hang of it
(and NESLife is still on my list of things to do).
Angst
Rambling and inconsistent
flyingchicken was actually right. I did it by purpose.
I wouldn't expect me to do it intentionally, though.
Pull what off? lack of friendship or...
Nope. I love friendship. I'm just able to select what friends I need myself. I have friends, and I have the liberty and ability to push people away I don't like and still have friends.
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