Ask A Girl IV: Boundless Questions

[Boundless]

On that note, I've also been described as looking like Michael Jackson, Paulo Ferrera, Jesus Christ, the Joker and John Lennon. How well am I doing?

Jackson - -1
Paulo Ferrera - -1
Jesus Christ - who knows, so let's go with 0
the Joker - oh +1
John Lennon - -1

So that comes out at a -2.
But with Johnny Depp in the running you're definitely on +8

 

[Thoughtful Thug]

I wish I had skin like that. Pretty soon (when I have the time) I will when I finally someday master my Adobe Photoshop CS5.

 

[W|M]

I need to go back to a tropical country again for a while so I can get myself back to my slightly more tanned state.

 

[Yared]

What sort of stuff are you implying? I think everyone does the most weird stuff on their own... that makes sense... but er... yeah, elaborate!

Well, I dunno. Stuff that would never be told to a dude (exception: this thread). Doesn't necessarily have to be disgusting or even that screwed up.

For example, I've heard that girls, when their bfs aren't home, often go through guys' stuff.

 

[Maniacal]

I've heard that guys, when their gf aren't home, often go through girl's stuff too. Same with roommates.

 

[Thoughtful Thug]

Cell phones and personal informations on the computer too.

Trust can be a tricky thing. Should you put in a password for both of your mobile and your computer, for the hope that your lover will not intrude into things that may cause friction in the relationship? And if you did put in a password in both, would that imply that there are things you are hiding from your lover?

 

[Yared]

Okay, bad example. But still... Or is the question itself too broad?

 

[Yared]

Maybe they walk around on their hands?

 

[Abaddon]

Can girls do that?!?!

 

[PeteAtoms]

If it pleases and sparkles with all of you, this is what girls do behind closed doors. Sunshine?

 

[Shekwan]

I've heard that guys, when their gf aren't home, often go through girl's stuff too. Same with roommates.

WTH? If you're a real man you have the integrity to be above such acts, as well as the judgement of character not to have to stoop so low to achieve the same aims.

Women can have these traits too obviously, so don't go attacking me with lol sexism remarks, thats missing the point.

 

[Holycannoli]

I demand that PS's song lyrics be in a metal song.

Also, what do you think of Johnny Depp's looks? I've been told I look like him.

Same, which is why I now dress like a pirate for Halloween.

I also like pirates, 17th-18th century pirates not modern ones

I wish I had the pictures people took of me wearing the tricorne standing on the bow of a boat in the backyard. Probably more amusing when you've been drinking.

 

[PeteAtoms]

@Boundless

Have you ever farted around Abaddon? What do you think of him doing that around you? Gross, funny or both?

 

[civ_king]

When can we expect to see pics of you and Abaddon dating, also when can we expect snuggle pics like this of you two?

 

[cardgame]

Boundless, what do you think of ponies?

More specifically, the fans?

 

[Abaddon]

When can we expect to see pics of you and Abaddon dating, also when can we expect snuggle pics like this of you two?

Well what does a "dating" picture look like?

I think "snuggle" pics are too "showwy-offy" and generally a bit sickly.. I always think people taking photos like that together to show off are frankly ridiculous for thinking anyone else would care or want to see! Those kinda situations are not one i want to share with the world either.

 

[ParadigmShifter]

My lyrics were accompanied by music - it was s cross between grunge, thrash and punk, with a bit of hawkwind/gong style cosmic as well.

EDIT: Sadly it was in the age of recording onto cassettes and I have lost the originals. It was pretty terrible, I was the only person who could play an instrument properly and the drummer had cardboard boxes and biscuit tins.

 

[Hygro]

Beauty demands praise [....] [P]erhaps some sort of compromise can be found. I can appreciate people as human beings, too - I can praise spirits as well as bodies, and even better, I can tell jokes and make conversation, etc. I do not know the social 'formulas', though - I hate all kinds of games between people.

There you go. People want to be treated like people. If you're praising someone's beauty you are being a fan, not a friend, but perhaps worse, you are praising something that isn't really core to who they are. And it's not even that they didn't earn that--most of the beautiful girls I knew didn't even find themselves to be beautiful, such that while they may have liked that their boyfriend (c'est moi) found them beautiful, it was kind of alien to them.

Imagine if someone started praising you for being really good at fitting in. After all, they cite that you can tell jokes/make conversation. You might be flattered at first, but ultimately offended because it isn't who you are. Like, jesus you are trying to be your own person and this other person is obsessed with something charming that you do that is ancillary to who you are. Gross, perhaps?

Also, as I mentioned earlier, the games are not a bad thing. Games are meant to be fun, and are always re-playable and made to be won. There are rules to each game, but they carry over to the others. The okcupid profile rule of "look away" or the "don't call for a few days" are bogus rules and distracting. The real rules are more subtle and govern when you talk light and when you talk heavy material, when you should act detached and when you should stop acting detached.

In the end, though obnoxious at first, you will find such games actually serve a healthy purpose. They teach you to at once be yourself, but also be in sync with other people. It's really easy to be one or the other to your detriment.

 

[Boundless]

Can girls do that?!?!

You can't walk on your hands?

@Boundless

Have you ever farted around Abaddon? What do you think of him doing that around you? Gross, funny or both?

No I don't think I have actually, weird. I'm not the farting type, more burpy (sorry!). And as for him, it's hilarious. Farting is funny, until it smells.

When can we expect to see pics of you and Abaddon dating, also when can we expect snuggle pics like this of you two?

Yes I second what Abaddon says, what is a dating photo?
And 'when' is the wrong word in that sentence, it should have been 'can' and I would have answered 'no'. They are for my eyes only, I agree, it's irritating when couples do that. It's PDA at its absolute worst.

Boundless, what do you think of ponies?

More specifically, the fans?

Love ponies, especially 'my little pony'.

Yours is definitely cooler though, it has the rainbow tail and mohawk. RAWR! Why?

 

[Boundless]

Cell phones and personal informations on the computer too.

Trust can be a tricky thing. Should you put in a password for both of your mobile and your computer, for the hope that your lover will not intrude into things that may cause friction in the relationship? And if you did put in a password in both, would that imply that there are things you are hiding from your lover?

Also, on this note, this is difficult. I don't have anything incriminating to hide, I rarely ever do, but to be honest if I did and my partner found it through looking then it's probably more my mistake for being a lemon and having stuff existing that shouldn't. This happened with a housemate of mine - her boyfriend had taken photos of his ex in her underwear and she went onto his emails and found them - and the whole thing about her going onto his emails was totally forgotten because she was so angry at what he'd done. Still, just don't hide it and don't have anything to hide and you won't have a problem. I suppose if you've got something to hide it's not that great in the first place...
I'm not a nosey person so I genuinely don't give a damn who people are texting/emailing etc etc. Nosey on facebook though but that's cos it gives you a reason to be