These analogies are all terrible.
Look, if you start with no sweets, and then somebody gives you a sweet, but not as many as the sweets the other children got, you can't say that they stole your sweets.
You've got to understand the difference between not being given candy - but given crap instead. Do you know what crap is? It comes out of people's butts and it smells.
So no, they did not steal our sweets. They gave us crap, and nothing but crap. They could have given us at least something made out of clay! or bronze! or whatever. Something half decent maybe. But nope, it was crap - on a scale of 1 to 10, it was pretty close to a 1. It made the lives of the citizens of my country miserable for decades. Instead it could have been so-so or even good, but nope, it ended up being horrible.
Imagine your house got flooded again, and you have the choice of 2 contractors to fix it all up, A or B. You go with A, and they use crap to fix up your house. They do a horrible job and your life is miserable as a result. "Oh how I wish I could have went with contractor B", you moan to yourself, as you go to sleep in your bed made out of crap.
Now imagine that you weren't even given that choice, and contractor A, the worst contractor imaginable - not even trained in anything remotely resembling the fixing of flooded houses - is who you got. You had no choice in the matter, you had to accept it.
So yes, it ruined the country for many decades, and the Soviets were responsible.