Perf everything in your response can be answered in this last paragraph you wrote. It "appears" that there are fundamental laws of the universe. Even if it is impossible to actually go the speed of light or faster we will find a way to get around that to make it seem as though we can. To the other point if we will eventually go faster then the speed of light if there were aliens then we would have already seen them by now.
Do you question the fact that the universe is governed by unchanging, fundamental laws? Or do you only doubt the fact that we can't accelerate an object with rest mass to c?
I've given an argument how this is impossible that only required special relativity and basic calculus. Do you want to question special relativity, a theory that has yet to be empirically proven wrong and was able to successfully predict hundreds of phenomena in advance?
It rather appears that you've never really grasped the difference between things that are impossible to humans and things that are impossible, period.
Furthermore, there are a number of reasons why we haven't seen aliens yet:
1. FTL travel is actually impossible.
2. They were just not smart enough to figure out how.
3. They don't care about exploring or colonising the galaxy.
4. Considering that the universe is ~13 billion years old while human civilization exists for only 10,000 years, they either went extinct before we were able to become aware of them, or have yet to develop.
5. Considering the observable universe has a radius of 46 billion lightyears, even engines that provide speeds of hundreds of c, they might never have been able to reach us, if intelligent species are sufficiently rare.
6. Considering the observable universe is (conservatively) estimated to contain 9 x 10^21 stars (that's a 9 with 21 zeros), it's pretty likely they never bothered to visit our stellar system that's not pretty remarkable.
Bottom line: the universe is HUGE, and even if I and the whole scientific community are wrong about (1), there are a number of reasons why "if there are aliens, why haven't we seen them yet" is a stupid argument against the existence of aliens.
I hate to imagine what aliens think of us if they based their opinion on our broadcast signals.
Best thing: the first images they're getting from us will be of Hitler, of all people. Talk about a good first impression.