Aneeshm: I think a lot of the differences in opinion we (and others) seem to have is our definition of violence. As far as I can tell, you seem to equate death with violence, and death with a negative. Let me tell you a bit of what i beleive:
I find death to be a natural part of any creature's life, and I beleive that there is a lot to be said about the timeliness of said death. For a being such as a human, with enough capacity to comprehend and appreciate thier own existance, I beleive that life should be preserved for as long as someone is able to think, so long as they wish to keep living. Animals, while to a degree aware of thier own existance, do not have (IMHO) a consciousness that is indepedant of thier physical selves. While a person's personality may be independant of thier physical form, a cow's is very much tied to the four legs, four stomachs, and flipping tail that makes it a cow.
Having taken that into consideration, I beleive that the worth of an animal's life is not judged so much by its length, but by its quality. If a cow lives to maturity without the fear of being attacked by predators, without going hungry, without contracting painful untreated diseases, then in my humble opinion, that cow has had a good life. If that cow meets the end of its life in a quick, painless, and humane manner, then that cow has led what I deem to be a near perfect existance as a cow. There is nothing cruel or violent about how many a cow meets thier end, nor do I find anything wrong with people consuming the flesh of that cow, particuarly if they were inolved with tending to the life of said cow.
I have heard plenty a good argument for vegetarianism based on the efficiency of land use, the advantages of a veggie diet, and even the wonders of veggie cuisine. But no one will ever convince me that eating the flesh of an animal is morally wrong, cruel, or violent. My own experience raising, tending to, and yes killing animals, has taught me that.