I have a cleaner that come to my house whenever we ask her, she told my wife that her niece, 12 years old, is back after 6 days went missing, she doesn't eat well or bath during those 6 days, and she refuse to talk to anyone and really scare, her father already pass away while her mother is sick from TBC so it's her relative who take care of her. The relative doesn't really want to continue the problem or seek for justice, they just glad she's back and go on with their life. My cleaner really suspicious with one of her neighbor who is close with the child, and he is the one who give the last pointer of where is she when they finally find her, but because the family not doing anything about it so life just goes on.
So one day while my cleaner cleaning my home, I call her and told her that I can help her, and she just directly burst into tears and telling me all of those things, so I ask what is the reason the relative not really pushing the matter, well she told me she's also cannot fathom why they are like that perhaps they are afraid or ashamed, or don't want to make it complicated. I ask her, are they possible afraid from this man that she's suspicious to be the culprit, is he some kind of a tough guy in the neighborhood or something? she said yes, and I said don't worry I'll take care of him, I ask her to bring her niece to the hospital for visum and I will afford the cost.
I go to my military friend, he is a high-ranking officer, and told him about the story, he told me he cannot use his authority to do anything about it but he can help me to assist them for the police investigation process, they need to compiles all the witness and evidence after that he told me he will help me with the pushing. Then I contacted my friend, he works in NGO for HIV prevention, I contacted him because I know he has so many court experience mostly from the ex-drug user. I told him everything, including my conversation with the military guy, he told me that he will contacted his friend from the child protection services if they can offer any help. After that he call me back and told me that they can only assist the family but it is depend on her family willingness to press charge and consistently giving their time and effort for this case, if the family not really cooperative as I told him it will be so hard to push the investigation. This is really blow my mind, a child went missing for 6 days, there is obvious child predator and kidnaper and we already get the suspect, yet the one who should work hard to gather the evidence and witness is the family not police? My logic said the fact that this child just back from 6 days gone missing this should be enough evidence for the police to move their pretty ass and start doing something. He said he already handle so many cases that was cut out in the middle because the one who press charge cannot afford the struggle to get justice, and there's that.
So I call my cleaner and told her everything, in return she also told me that she already talk to the aunt that take care of the child and told her that she know someone who can help the child, the aunt said everything is ok, the most important thing is she's back now, and the aunt said the child during that time going around with a university student, this story is contrary with the neighbor that my cleaner thought to be the culprit, the cleaner said to her aunt during those 6 days the child must endured a horrible physical and sexual abuse, the aunt said let's hope and pray it is not like that, her answer makes me strongly believe that she know the truth but doesn't want to press any further effort why she hoping on something that already happened? There is no need to hope for that, she can just inspect or ask the child for the answer if any abuse happened during her missing. I told my cleaner I'll go there and I'll meet the child and her aunt, she said she's afraid they will think bad of her if I do that, like now everything already come back to normal and the child already back to her house, if I go there they will see us as nuance and try to creates further problem.
So right now, I feel disgusted with the situation, I'm disappointed with the normalization that everyone do (not the cleaner), and I really hate the police.