The skin change threw me off. I like things that don't change. Like - I have been lurking in this forum for 8.5 years now and I'm pretty scared if anything changes.
I was definitely triggered in some capacity. This used to be a well defined safe space for me.. I used to type in the address, press enter, and be comforted by the default colour scheme. Today I come here, and.. it's slightly off.. Like if somebody took your favourite cheese and changed something about it enough so that it really stands out to you and continually reminds you about how you miss the way it used even though the new formula isn't really that bad. It's not necessarily worse - in some ways it is, in some ways it's better.. but it's slightly different.
If it was completely different it would be easy to forget my lost love or cheese or whatever. But no, it's just slightly off, it's as if you carefully arranged your desk and somebody came over and moved things in a slightly different spot while you were gone. Not only that, they glued everything in place and you couldn't put it back.
I saw a freaking bird fly into the middle of the street today, right beside me, it looked like a part of its wing was injured and it couldn't really fly, so it just landed right there in the middle of the road.. A car was approaching and slowed down to give the bird time to fly away, but the bird was like ".. .. Nah" and just stood his ground, probably couldn't fly away if it tried. I was half afraid that the person would slam on the brakes or swerve, there were other cars around and it would have no doubt lead to an accident. So maybe that's why this person just kept going and.. the tire went *right over* the pigeon. there is a loud *CRUNCH*... then blood and guts everywhere and the lady behind me gasping. So I turn around give her the "WTH did you see that" look and we talk for a bit, but anyway.. the whole point of the pigeon story is that the colour change made me feel worse at the time.
I am over both events now .... Actually maybe not, each time I look at that colour my soul burns with pain. I should probably change it back to what it was, that's probably possible.
Now, seriously, warpus, why do you use that hideous CFC default skin?
I usually only configure things on message boards and social media sites for practical purposes. I'll do it if it helps me. The default is usually designed to be easy on the eyes, so I've never been tempted to change it.