Ok fam I come to you in my time of need. Over the last several weeks I've been on dates with 3 separate girls. Nothing has developed to the point where I feel uncomfortable continuing to see any of them (we haven't even kissed or called each other gf/bf/hon/bb whatever or anything). Here's the thing. These are ALL my first dates/expereinces with this kind of thing. I've never had a girlfriend or been intimate with anyone or anything. So I'm flying blind. But at some point there's a chance one could get serious and I would need to call the other two off. THAT BRINGS ME TO YOU. What follows are the pros and cons of each. I leave it up to you to decide who I should go with, mess up, and then regret everything.
Girl one:
Pros: hilarious
really hot and sensual and touchy
assertive and take charge and will tell me bluntly and honestly (she's super honest and upfront) what's on her mind or whatever
Cons: calls transgender folks trannies
once said "midgets" are gross and should be aborted
this all concerns me a bit that she has a mean/judgemental streak
Girl 2
Pros: seems really nice so far and super easy to talk to
Cons: i dunno we've only met once for like 90 minutes. In all honesty I don't know her much.
She wants to leave Kalamazoo within the next couple years so there's probably a cap on a relationship
Girl 3
Pros: Super compassionate
Has more in common with me than any of the other two and it's not even close (anxiety? check. similar music taste? check. we hit it off immediately and could commiserate about so much because we had the exact same struggles and thought processes)
Really similar life values and morals and stuff regarding honesty, accepting people from all walks of life, etc.
Our first date lasted almost 6 hours lol
The prettiest one
Cons
The whammy of all whammies. She has kids.
Please vote and/or tell me it's all pointless since we all die.
Please DO NOT suggest a threesome or foursome. If I wanted to disappoint that many people at the same time, I'd have dinner with my family.
Thank you much love.