Your position is that Ripley is feminine because she is a woman. Anything she does is feminine by virtue of that being the case. However, you said that you agree with the argument in your first post.
Oh dear I do apologize, I did come late into this conversation and I'm afraid I sort of maybe over-summarized what I was reading. I felt in general a lot of the discussion was around Ripley being a man in woman shape, which is what I was disagreeing with, and I was agreeing generally she was a woman and not a man, if I'm making sense? I'm not really familiar with what "fake" women were being referred to, and I can't seem to find it, do you happen to know which examples of such female heroes she was contrasting against Ellen Ripley? I guess I was sort of just responding to what I felt was an overarching theme of this discussion here.
My major issue is I don't believe women action heroes need to fit a male defined view of "feminine", which to me is really just sexual objectification, if you know what I mean? I'd rather not see a woman hero running around in high heels and a cocktail dress, worrying about damaging her hair or breaking her nails or something, like some sort of Joss Whedon phony-feminism, you know? I really feel James Cameron really gets it, another movie I loved was
True Lies, and Jamie Lee Curtis' character is a lovely example. She's obviously not the lead, but she had her own ambitions about breaking away from her stereotypical housewife existence, and she tried to take control of her own destiny, plus I always loved that bit when she tosses her shoes, lol. And Tia Carrere's character was also delightfully villainous, with how she used Arnold and she also had her own objectives, she just happened to be allied with those terrorists.
Some behaviors have changed from gender to gender over time, like high heels used to be something men wore to appear taller, and women started wearing them to appear more masculine, lol! Men used to wear makeup and such, right? But if you look at "traditional" gender traits, you'll find pretty much everything about strength and dominance assigned to men, while everything weak assigned to women, which is why I really don't agree with those definitions, you know what I mean?