We get to choose between two worlds, one in which kids on ebikes are chased by police in motor vehicles and one in which they do not. In one world fewer kids die in police chases and there are more kids riding ebikes, and the other is the opposite. Weighing up these costs and benefits is what politics is all about.That's ridiculous and self-contradicting.
"we don't get to choose how reckless people act, so we are responsible if they act reckless"
Wut, again.
I mean, I understand what you say. But that's just the exact same reasoning as blaming the victim.
You can call it blame, you can call it responsibility, but that is just semantics. Decisions have consequences, and analysing these consequences and choosing the ones we want is the exercise of power.