THe fun never stops!
You overdramatize the condition of the Poles in the Russian Empire, who were in many ways freer than Russians themselves. Nothing especially disastrous happened during Russian control. You weren't assimilated, forced to convert into your faith, colonised by Russians or anything. Your identity wasn't in any way threatened. If you seek mistreating in those times, look no further than Odra lands, who were Germanised in no time almost completely. Were it not for Soviet Union you would have no chances of returning those lands ever.
In the Russian occupied parts of Poland during the 19th century Poles where forbidden to learn Polish in school, forbidden to buy land, in some instances forbidden to own land. Whenever Poles tried to fight for their rights they were sent to Siberia. Russia Was a despotic imperialist state that subjugated a lot of different people including its own.
As a RUssian historicaly you dont even know what freedome is or the right to decide over your own destiny. Almost Everyone in Russia has suffered so making other people suffer is not a big deal. It is a matter of perspective.
So much grudge Stalin held, that he even granted you your long lost lands (ever since Boleslav, is it?), a half of what you own now, ethnically deporting Germans (the whole world now blames Russia and we didn't even benefit from it in any way), who earlier ethnically cleansed it for themselves and repopulating it with Poles. Sure we also retook our westren lands that Poles stole from us in a moment of our near-destruction. But overall I have nothing good to say on Stalin (to put it mildly), he shouldn't be representative of Russia anyway, he killed a lot more Russians than Poles ever could.
Dude, your being childish and ignorant

, Poland lost 1/3 of its land in Stalins little rearangement, and that is with the land we "regained" included in the calculation. Deporting all those Germans was as evil as deporting all those Poles from their land in Belarus and Ukraine, and yes Russia is to blame. Poland was rebuilt as a country after WW1 and that land in the east was regained just like the rest of Poland. Just have a look from that perspective for a moment.
Well, yes it's a pity that Soviet solders couldn't bring you what they themselves didn't have. Freedom, democracy and other cookies. Poles had two options: to be completely wiped off the face of the planet in German slavery or to get thier long lost land, to double in size and live as a communist puppet state with Polish language, culture and sciences prospering.
Yes it is a pity that just as you pushed out one agressor (wich you had helped in taking over Poland

) you took over Poland for your self and turned it into a nightmare in your image, in practice enslaving people and killing hundreds of thousands as you went at it.
Yes people weren't rich, but neither were the Russians. The overall situation with povetry were improved drastically. Are you gonna deny that?
So you had to spread your kind of hell to other people, thanks.

The Polish economy was much better after the war than during the war, economies do flurish when not being bombed by the enemy.
The notion that Russians 'were stealing' from Poles and took it all for themselves is beyond ridiculous. Russia was the biggest donor in thw whole of the Warsaw block (see, we even named it Warsaw, not Moscow pact).
Forcing a party under the threat of violence to sell their goods under the market value is what the mafia does. It is not considered fair play and is a kind of stealing.
Poles were always regarded as almost living in the West by the rest of the USSR. Of course all those deportations of Poles and shooting of thier officers were awful crimes, and Russians suffered a even more from that said system, a lot more. Pre-1953 USSR was complete bastard to Russia.
I know, the Russians did suffer the most from Stalin (or was it the Ukranians with the Glodomord?). But that dosen't make the crimes perpetrated against Poles or other free nations less criminal.
Yet you Poles are as usual biggest bros with Germans and the West and whenever they screw you over (again) you blame Russia.
The awesome thing with Germany is that not only do they admitt to everything they have done and apologise for it every chance they get, they even payed reparations after the war. When you talk to them they do not deny nor try to gloss over their crimes. Unless their insane Neonazis, but hey there are crazy people everywhere!
Should we really get into counting our sins to each other and measuring thier impact and rinse and repeat it endlessly?
Just dont deny and gloss over your crimes.
Do you think it will serve us any good? You're too quick to write Polish misdeeds of the past off. Who said that's ok? Did any Russian agreed to that? Yet you demand an endless series of official apologies, no less. We didn't hear you sincere appoligies, even symbolic ones, for taking our heartlands and holding it for 500 years, forcing Catholicism, torturing and killing those who refused; neither for taking Pskov, Smolensk and atrocities that followed there. Niether for 1612 and the conquest of Moscow and unspeakable attrocities that followed. Niether for 1812 when Poles partaking in Napoleons invasion were mindlessly cruel to Russians, so that even Bonaparte generals were disgusted.
As if Russians did not torture and kill Poles in those days.
Dude I admitted that those things were horrible, most poles do not deny them unless they are nationalist wackos.
But there is such a thing as statute of limitations in reality, because holding a grudge over
centuries from times when the value of human lives in everyday life was all but nonexistent,; especially as you have had two centuries of payback is downright insulting and to downplay recent abominations that still reside in living memory.
To be frank with you, it really grieves me what Russia did to thier Polish Slavic brothers. Just as much as it grievs me what Poles did to thier Russian Slavic brothers. Such an intense and completely sensless hostility.
War and hostility is unnessesary because people gain more from cooperation, it warms my heart to hear that all bad things between us grieve you and I also find all these horrors to be regrettable.
We could have united and pwned everyone or at least be busy developing, because we're not really different, instead we spent centuries and centuries and centuries and centuries fighting and spilling brothers Slavic blood and for what? A millenium since it all first started we're still at each other's throats!
But that is what I find questionable in your motives, that we should be united to "pwne everyone", why not grant other ethnicities peace and prosperity.

Isint the desire for pwnage at the root of thebad things that we are discussing?
There's only one way outta this mess.
1) To apologise to each other regardless of who done more bad stuff or who's more to blame, because we'll never agree on that and it would go on forever. Sufficient enough to say that we've been *very* bad to each other, not at all how brothers should treat each other.
And to apologise not on the political level, because politicans have thier own agenda. Just on personal level, whenever it's appropriate.
2) Work towards the institution that would promote stability in the region and not make either of us feel left out.
It is feels silly to apologise for what my somewhat distant ancestors did centuries ago as people in my family who were allive in the previous decade were raped and robbed by Russian soldiers but hey I'll apologize!
