My BMI is ~18.1, since we ventured to that topic. I'm approximately 25-30 pounds underweight according to some chart or something somewhere, but the site I just grabbed my BMI from says adding another 5 pounds would put me into the normal range 

It's a fact of life.It seems like many of us have a morbidly obese aunt.
This can be quite a problem. If you're on a crowded bus or train (or heaven forbid, plane), then you don't want to have to sit next to something who takes up half your seat. Even worse is when they actually do take up both seats. It's understandable that they'd want to sit down, given it must be quite a difficult job to remain standing, but I reckon there's something wrong with one person preventing two from having a seat.I once saw a woman on the bus take up 2 seats by herself
Does CFC count ? Many people here are the most morbidly obese people i have seen.
How many of us have you seen?
I'm at a loss, I don't even know how to start to address this. Any suggestions? Have any of you dealt with a similar situation?
I'm going to pass over the question in the OP (which is just leading to a lot of cruel, unseemly talk about peoples' friends and relations, none of it important) but the question of weight, health, and fitness has become pretty timely for my group of friends. We are generally pretty active in our recreational activities (camping, hiking, boating, biking, outdoor concerts and festivals, etc), and it's becoming problematic for everyone to participate because our various weight and fitness levels are diverging further as we get older (we're all in our late 20s / 30s).
I don't know how to handle this. I want everyone to be invited / included on these outing or road trips, but I'm already seeing a situation wherein some of my friends just want to leave out other friends because they get (understandably) frustrated at being held up, and the other friends are getting (understandably) frustrated at that impatience. I'm not the type to just keep it hush-hush and make secret plans without certain friends - I hate that kind of thing. (I don't want tp accidentally mention that the reason I won't be at your BBQ on Saturday is because I'm going camping with X people, but yeah, you weren't invited, sorry.)
I'm at a loss, I don't even know how to start to address this. Any suggestions? Have any of you dealt with a similar situation?
Interesting problem you have here, I'll bump for maybe further input.
Are you mainly talking about hiking? (I can't see camping requiring any amount of physical fitness). A problem I run into when I'm with people who can't do serious hikes. Sometimes if I go someplace with my mother and other relatives (aunts uncles) it sucks because we can only do short hikes of like 100 yards. But sometimes I may say for them to do whatever, and come pick me up later. And I'll go by myself to do some serious hike. It's what I did when I climbed Wheeler Peak in Great Basin national park. It's not a real tough hike, but it's got a good elevation gain, and it's easy to get out of breath easy near the top. I just tell other people to do whatever, and wait for me to come back. If I don't come back, call the authorities.![]()
BvBPL said:Also, folks just need to compromise. At some point being frustrated by the laggards is just antisocial. They need to either suck it up or smoke some grass to chill out. And those laggards need to get their asses in gear already; they are slowing everyone down!
That's a problem beyond obesity.I knew a few linemen at OSU who were above 320, but they weren't even really FAT...just huge. There was a secretary at a school where I worked who was over 300 in pure fat though. Our office was on the 2nd floor, and if the elevator was out, she had to call in sick. Too fat for stairs.