Religion has told me that if I don't pray to a cloud-man, I'll burn forever.
Religion has done far worse than this.
Religion has convinced people that it should be a crime for women to show any part of their body in public. Religion has convinced people to cut the genitals of their infant children. Religion has convinced people that it's necessary to go to war over land that they've never set foot upon before or ever seen before, just because it is occupied by people of another faith. Religion has convinced people that it is okay to persecute and torture and kill the non-religious or those they consider blasphemers. And if all of that wasn't bad enough, when they ran out of heretics and blasphemers and atheists to kill, they went to work attempting to destroy other religions. Religion has convinced people to question science, question scientists, and even try to silence them through death. Religion has taught people that there is value in belief that is based on nothing but sheer willpower, and a stubborn resistance to all other ideas.
Everything good that is attributed to religion has been done by people of all faiths and people who lack faith, and it predates religion. It's clearly not attributable to any one faith or even religion at all.
The state, on the other hand, gives us roads, power, sanitation, helps prevent crime, captures, investigates, and prosecutes criminals, keeps them from harming others, protects people from invasion from a foreign power, creates security procedures that keep us safe when we fly, gathers intelligence on and disrupts terrorist networks and plots, provides a basic safety net for the poor, the sick, the mentally and physically handicapped, and the elderly, educates the people, funds scientific discovery, sets a standard maximum amount of poison I'm allowed to have in my oatmeal that I eat every single day and persecutes businesses who don't comply with those safety standards, ensures I don't have arsenic in my drinking water, and goes after idiots who don't know how to safely construct a building and it collapses and kills half your family.
Rare are the instances where the state does something evil and gets away with it. And eventually, idiots get tossed out of office in a government that's a democratic republic.
In organized religion, on the other hand, you can have a guy who raped children keep their place for decades, being shifted from one sanctuary from the state to another, protected by his fellow child molesters and rapists, all while being exempt from taxes.
And of course, you have people doing what the OP was talking about, torturing and nearly killing their own children, and getting away with it, in the nutball name of idiot religion, nyah nyah nyah the state can't touch me.
I would rather have the state, which is answerable to us all, have authority over the church, which is answerable to
nothing, not even basic human decency and conscience.
And for the love of your God, not only should these institutions be taxed, but when they do stuff like this, their property needs to be taken away, sold on the market, with the proceeds going 100% to benefit the children who need to be taken away and placed in foster care.
Parents who send these kids to these places should be thrown in a special jail that treats them EXACTLY the way their kids were treated, right down to the hose showers and the rape. I'll give such a jail a
religious exemption not to treat the prisoners with any semblance of human rights or human dignity.
See how they like it.