I think you're underestimating looks.
Yeah, if I'm completely honest, I think I owe a decent amount of my success to the fact that some people think I'm good looking and charming. I charmed my way into my first job with TFA (as an intern)...I did a very good job there, which got me a good enough letter of recommendation to overcome my terrible GPA from an average state university.
I think overall though, I think it's been about half and half for me.
LUCK:
*Born into 1st world country, and in a zip code with an outstanding public school
*White "enough" that I escaped a lot of the negative traits that come with having immigrant parents/latino extraction.
*Decent looks and a sense of humor that endears people to me.
*Got my first political job thanks because a college frat brother suddenly moved to a different state, and recommended me to take her place. That job ended up being a top flight race, opening up a door of political opportunities/ business opportunities I wouldn't have had
BAD LUCK:
-Not born into much money
-Member of an unpopular religion
-dad suffered from health problems entire life, died while I was in college
-Family (including me) had fairly serious health problems and lack of quality insurance
-Graduated college during a TERRIBLE economy
I haven't wasted too many of my chances. If I had been a little luckier, somebody with my natural talents could be doing much better...but without my lucky breaks, I could easily be a OccupyChicago protester. All in all, compared to my peers, I can't say I'm unlucky.