This is what I hope to see since I mostly see “advocates” displaying toxic attitudes whenever activists voice their views and bludgeoning and browbeating people whom even slightly disagree with their positions (e.g. attacking people who don’t view trans women as women, etc).
Right now, and I’m sure this is true for a majority of Americans, I hold LGBT issues way at the bottom of my priorities. The toxic activism shown in the past decade has, admittedly, left a sour taste in people’s mouths and a feeling of enmity.
I feel that it should be done tactfully and without being preachy. Not just grannies and grandpas, but also the gamers and the grillers (the centrist “I just wanna grill for God sakes and be left alone” people), and people whom toxic activists left a feeling of enmity towards the LGBT movement. Gamers are already suspicious of anything that has a progressive messaging and will interpret anything preachy and demonizing (saying that you’re an evil cis straight white man for example) as pushing a woke agenda.