Okay, firstly? That doesn't make sense. It's a sociological interpretation, all I could cite would be a more expansive version of what I already said. There's no graph I can cite for this; what would that even
look like?
This is your "definition". This is what it means to you. But I don't have to agree with this. I define things which surround me. I on my own define what "patriotism" means to me. For me a country or community of countries or any other community (for example my small local community - municipality in which I live, and which I support), is not a "fictional entity" - contrary to what you claim -, but entity which consists of human beings.
Patriotism is conventionally understood as loyalty to the nation
qua nation, and that any corresponding loyalty to your co-citizens is derived from a shared national identity, rather than a shared humanity; that an American patriot is loyal to the United States
in itself, and loyal to other Americans only insofar as they are American. If instead a person's fundamental loyalty is to other human beings as human beings, even while holding a special attachment to their own cultural heritage, they'd simply be a humanist. I think that everyone should be a humanist, and so find counter-humanist sentiments fundamentally objectionable.
What, in the above, do you find so shockingly problematic?
It has nothing to do with being "on the left" or "on the right" or "moral valuations". It has to do with fundamentally misunderstanding what the Constitution and basic human rights even mean. It has to do with being so authoritarian to think that anybody who criticizes the absurd policies of the government and especially the military "hates" the country, not those who strive to ensure that it remains committed to the basic tenets which it was founded.
Ailedhoo summed it up quite succinctly:
I'm really surprised you seem to have so much difficulty understanding the difference between patriotism and nationalism. How one is quite common and basically harmless, while the other is the real problem and even eventually leads to fascism instead of liberty.
The "America: Love it or leave it" crowd are about as unpatriotic as one can possibly get. They are the ones who actually hate the basic premises on which it was founded.
You're not arguing for your model, here, you're just insisting upon it. As I said, it's completely incoherent with how the term is otherwised used, historically or contemporarily. Were Garibaldi, Sun Yat-sen and Pádraig Pearse "fascists"? Or are the three distinct sub-disciplines concerned with their respective movements, among the countless examples I could bring up, all equally mistaken as to the proper definition of "nationalism"?
This distinction doesn't serve to enlighten us as to the character of either "nationalism" or "patriotism", into nationalism as a political typology, or into nationhood as an ideological category. All it does is all you to affirm that Democrats good, Republicans bad, just as you always suspected.