The deeper I go into the TES "lore" community the more I find it a bunch of pretentious, pseudo-philosophical, pseudo-Gnostic, cult-like, elitist, post-modern silliness. I guess that's really harsh and abrasive, and I have better things to rant about, but it makes me not want to like TES. However, since I don't want to start going on a nerdrage (and boy TES nerdrage flame wars are just... well, they are what they are), I'll just play Skyrim and Oblivion and beat things up to make myself feel better.
EDIT: In a way, I guess a lot of really hardcore fandoms are like this?