Cloud_Strife
Deity
Wafer thin, with the tensile strength of rice paper dipped in acidExtremely limited, by the look of it.
Wafer thin, with the tensile strength of rice paper dipped in acidExtremely limited, by the look of it.
Its even worse than that. Its like saying that slavery is OK, because the underground railroad is possible for those who have a problem with slavery.This is kind of an insane idea, this is like saying a solution to slavery is the underground railroad
Consider
Consider managing in the current reality as it is,
rather than pining for what is no longer the legal reality:
(i) SCOTUS has ruled Roe v Wade invalid
(ii) Some US states have laws prohibiting abortion
(iii) Some woman in those states are pregnant now.
(iv) Some of those women definitely do not want a baby.
I identified four options:
(c) won't occur quickly enough for those women who are already pregnant.
I recommended (d), my recommendation being previously summarised in
a single word "Emigration".
Yet some posters here are annoyed about it.
Why do we have to? I'm presuming the idea that we have to due to this being read-in as criticism.But, obviously, they don't have an alternative suggestion for a person in that situation.
likening abortion regulation to slavery is neither productive nor accurate.Its even worse than that. Its like saying that slavery is OK, because the underground railroad is possible for those who have a problem with slavery.
Why do we have to? I'm presuming the idea that we have to due to this being read-in as criticism.
As allies, it's on us to have a plan that we're backing, and it's our fault if we don't have a better option, not his. Also, I will point out again that if a woman were currently choosing that option, we would not be gainsaying her. In fact, if we knew her, we'd even be considering supporting the effort in material ways. In fact in fact, if someone were to be suggesting against moving, deriding it, or trying to inhibit it, I think we'd push back against them.
That said, people sometimes lock people in bad situations hoping that they will then contribute to the local changes that are deemed 'necessary'.
But, again, it's not 'the answer'. It's an answer. I don't see options for her other than criminal activity, moving, or changing her desire to carry the pregnancy.
People are reading in a strawman, where her option to move is read-in as a sufficiently fine option that us further worrying about it is pointless.
The plan I'm backing is the destruction of the Republican Party and the end of the political influence of misogynist lunatics.
Yeah, I know. But this doesn't help the currently pregnant woman living in those states. I don't think you'd hinder a woman trying to flee from those states, either.
I think it's a strawman to suggest it was presented as a 'real solution'.
Of course you're in position to facilitate those escapes, btw.
I think this is probably based on some false assumptions about my current situation. But yeah, I suppose it's a matter of priorities - like, you're right, I'm currently putting a higher priority on not being homeless than on donating to causes.
Apologies and I am very much rooting for you. I will make two observations, though, just to not be demoralizing or to be misconstrued. (1) 'facilitate' doesn't assume 'donation' (2) I would put 'collecting personal resources' as a key step in 'helping others'. I am never going to be the one who derides the dilemma of helping people now vs. helping other people more later. I also prioritized not being homeless and even having a bit of a safety buffer.
The topic has drifted from the initial exchange, where you asked what a woman should do to opt out. Of the things I can think of, "move" is probably the most actionable option, and we both agreed that helping someone move is a viable path someone could take as a personal solution. In his next post, I think he laid out 3 other options to the concern. I think it's a bit of a distraction, because I'd prefer to talk about our onus.
I think people read-in it as being a singular suggestion. I am not even sure it was a 'suggestion'. But, for those who know it's insufficient, I think there's a onus to have a better plan. IF EE is really so singularly stupid, expecting him to have a better idea is a bit weird.
That spur was over whether or not the dead have rights. I think it is pretty well established that they do not. Nor do they have survivorship bias.
That would depend. Living relatives would have that right here. For harvesting or autopsy for medical research. The dead have no say.