Isn't this sort of thing more defensible in the states where there is a smaller population? If Wyoming receives $2.00 per $1.00 paid in federal taxes, that doesn't mean a whole hell of a lot, because what does Wyoming receive in funding? They probably just get federal highway funds and defense installations. Is it really going to boost the economies of San Diego and Newark to have an early-warning radar system outside of the city?
As for highway funds, it's pretty obvious that even though the funds are spent in Arizona or wherever, that the economies of California and Texas benefit... good luck getting your products manufactured in Texas to a store in California if there's no road between the two states.
The more populated states are less defensible, and yes, it's true that they are receiving what basically amount to welfare payments from the federal government. I don't see a reason to support that, but why are those arguing for wealth transfer payments complaining? It makes it sound like their side only wants their goals accomplished if they get power from it.