Kansas does it again....

blackheart said:
If you're really concerned, just ask them straight up.

Asking puts a huge bucket of water on the fire and they may lie to you anyway. Just because they have a STD does not guarantee it will be passed onto you and that may be a risk that they are willing to take.

If you are concerned enough to consider asking then you should walk away and go seek a better quality partner.
 
Alpine Trooper said:
Its hard to believe that the worlds most socially backwards state is only a couple hundred kilometers from my house.

No, I'm sure that there are countries where things are worse.
 
Alpine Trooper said:
Its hard to believe that the worlds most socially backwards state is only a couple hundred kilometers from my house.

That is a gross exaggeration and troll if I ever saw one.
 
When I took Sex Ed, we got this nifty two-page chart that listed all the methods of protection, and gave percentages of them working or not. Abstinence was the only (non-surgical) method at %100. More or less, the teacher left up to us if we wanted to engage in intercourse or not. She just advised us to use protection.

And after that, she showed us some very gruesome pictures of STD effects.

And then no wanted to engage in sex.
 
Gilder said:
When I took Sex Ed, we got this nifty two-page chart that listed all the methods of protection, and gave percentages of them working or not. Abstinence was the only (non-surgical) method at %100. More or less, the teacher left up to us if we wanted to engage in intercourse or not. She just advised us to use protection.

And after that, she showed us some very gruesome pictures of STD effects.

And then no wanted to engage in sex.
Same here, except the 2 page chart was a 4 page chart.

But the people here don't care... (eavesdropped on some of the more popular people, (not me) and all they talk about is sex.)
 
nonconformist said:
How is abstinance "taught"?
Teacher: Don't do it, mmkay?
Teacher: Now watch this video about not doing it.

Kinda like that. It's kinda a tricky thing to teach, so they show videos about it. Or maybe that's just because of our teachers... but oh well.
 
nonconformist said:
Wasn't there that lady that gave oral sex, and kept some in her mouth, and after the man had gone, scooped it out, and usedit to impregnate herself?

I'm sure such an article was psoted on CFC.
the guy was Boris Becker (tennis ace), which made it a money and attention grab. Semen theft is the buzzword for it :p
 
Perfection said:
I'm skeptical toward that contention, do you have a source?

hu?

you do not need a source, just a brain!

*sucky sucky sucky* *spit* (gets on fingers). *rub* *rub* voila! pregnant!

and many many other possibilities.
 
Update: Apparently, it's stalled out.

Backing off from Abstinence-Only !
Wednesday May 10 2006 6:57



TOPEKA, Kan. (AP) - An effort to require Kansas public schools to have abstinence-only sex education courses appears to have stalled.

Conservative Republicans on the Kansas Board of Education who'd been receptive to the idea were backing away from it Tuesday. Instead, board members plan to consider recommending that courses stress "abstinence until marriage'' but include information about birth control and sexually transmitted diseases.

A proposed mandate to threaten schools with the loss of state accreditation if they didn't comply came from board member Kathy Martin of Clay Center.

Martin, part of the board's 6-4 conservative Republican majority, has said the state should tell young people they're expected to avoid premarital sex and that it's best for their health.

But asked Tuesday whether she still is pursuing an abstinence-only mandate, she said, "I'm not sure.''

One issue is the lengthy process required before the board can enact a new regulation. It requires public hearings, scrutiny from the attorney general's office and a review by legislators.

The process could take nine months, by which time the board's composition may have changed because of elections this year.

A regulation also could face resistance from local Kansas school boards, who've traditionally made decisions about what's actually taught in classrooms.

"I believe this is a local decision and should be made at the local level,'' said board member Janet Waugh, a Kansas City Democrat. "I have faith in local boards.''

Supporters of so-called comprehensive sex education were heartened that conservative board members backed away from a mandate.

"I'm just relieved that we're still talking, and that it's still a conversation that's on the table,'' said Debra Rukes, director of the Topeka YWCA's teenage pregnancy prevention program.

But if the board is still talking about sex education, it's also still split over what even a policy statement should say.

For example, Martin objects to a policy recommending "comprehensive'' sex education, worrying that detailed discussions about birth control can promote sexual activity.

Rukes said: "That 'comprehensive' word scares people because they think it's standing up, handing out condoms, and that isn't what it is. It's about providing complete, medically accurate information.''

For almost two decades, the board required comprehensive sex education classes, but as it revised rules for accrediting schools, it allowed the regulation to lapse. A rule adopted last year requires instruction about human sexuality but doesn't specify what that should include.

In March, the board told the state's 300 school districts they must receive parents' written permission before teaching their children sex education. Most districts had assumed a child would participate unless a parent objected in writing.

Only a few other states, including Arizona, Nevada and Utah, have such "opt-in'' requirements on sex education, according to the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States, which promotes sex education.

Source.
 
carlosMM said:
hu?

you do not need a source, just a brain!

*sucky sucky sucky* *spit* (gets on fingers). *rub* *rub* voila! pregnant!

and many many other possibilities.

Spoken like a true virgin. You know that sperm can't survive that right? Are you being sarcastic? If not, it's pretty hilarious that anyone above the age of 14 would think something like that.

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and why excactly would this not work?
I'm not exactly sure (I'll look it up later), but I think that sperm can survive outside the for a little while (not for long, but certainly a few minutes). so, while the chance of getting pregnant the way carlos said is not exactly big, it certainly exists.

If I were you I wouldn't be this fast in judging other people's virginity.....
 
Pasi Nurminen said:
Spoken like a true virgin. You know that sperm can't survive that right? Are you being sarcastic? If not, it's pretty ****ing hilarious that anyone above the age of 14 would think something like that.
Didn't we have a case here a few months ago where a woman got pregnant in just about that way and demanded child support payments?
 
Pasi Nurminen said:
Spoken like a true virgin. You know that sperm can't survive that right? Are you being sarcastic? If not, it's pretty ****ing hilarious that anyone above the age of 14 would think something like that.
Yeah, so much that the woman in this thread didn't get pregnant: http://forums.civfanatics.com/showthread.php?t=112911&highlight=pregnant+oral


Anyway, what is ti with you? I've never seen a post from you that didn't resort to petty namecalling, and comletely irrational anger.
 
Pasi Nurminen said:
Spoken like a true virgin. You know that sperm can't survive that right? Are you being sarcastic? If not, it's pretty hilarious that anyone above the age of 14 would think something like that.

Yes it can. Sperm can survive from 24-72 hours outside the human body.
 
Sometimes I wonder what planet my state's legislature actually live on.

I WENT to high school in Kansas, and believe me, people have sex. And will continue to do so, because I would presume that when the opportunity presents itself, the advice of one's Health teacher will be the furthest thing from one's mind.
 
I went to school in KS (Shawnee Mission district) my whole life. We were taught all about birth control, STD's, and all that stuff from an early age. I think they started in on us in grade school to be honest. And at the end of whatever was being discussed (AID's prevention, pregnancy, etc...), we were always told that abstinence is the ONLY sure fire way to prevent any of this.

It's unfortunate that the rest of KS is as jacked up as it is.

Legal age of consent for sex in KS - 16.
Legal age to get married in KS - 18

Why is it legal for them to have sex before marriage? Why would the consenting age be when they are still in high school if you aren't going to teach them about it?

If you don't teach kids sex-ed in school, where exactly will they learn it from? They're going to have to learn it from somewhere eventually.
 
Pasi Nurminen said:
Spoken like a true virgin. You know that sperm can't survive that right? Are you being sarcastic? If not, it's pretty hilarious that anyone above the age of 14 would think something like that.


Hehe, I wonder who sex-educated you - it seems you are particularly mis-informed.

Go ask Boris Becker (ex tennis star) about it - he has a daughter conceived that way.







:lol:
 
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