Random Rants XIX: Failure Tactics

[SchoolzSoKewl]

I am never going to develop healthy sleeping habits. Everyday I promise myself I won't procrastinate and I'll sleep early, but no. I'm just a liar.

 

[useless]

all I got for no-shave november was a stache and neckbeard.

Same except i was left with a ginger beard and 'stache.

 

[Abaddon]

So what makes ##### special? Why do you love her so much? What do you see in her that you don't see in the rest? Are you sure it's real & it's not just a projection of your hopes onto her? If so, how do you plan to get her back? Does she want to "settle down" also? Are you her type of man? etc. etc. you really have to ask yourself this stuff & since you're here & basically anonymous you may as well answer it for us here.

I see a future. Something I have not seen in other girls. Almost without fail every relationship i get into im trying to force its longevity on myself from the begining, this is different because I am not having to force at all. I am instead having to hold myself back. I see LONG long term plans with her. Living together/kids/marrage/how that would work etc..

She wants me to settle down, so i guess she is wanting to settle also. She is young tho (18)

I'll throw a random bone in here that she also likes girls an we've enjoyed several 3-somes or more. That alone is enough to keep things spicy. I'm a terror for finding other girls attractive while im still with someone else.. essentially setting up the next relationship before I am out of the current one. never out of a relationship for long. ##### usually picks up on when i'm attracted to a girl and that turns her on.. cool eh?

I havn't lost her, she still claims she loves me. It happened more due to the inevitabily of me being away for so long. I don't blame her for it, its not like we had promised anything to each other for the time that I am away.

That it hurts so much shows to me how much she means to me.. normally I couldn't care less what a girl does while I am not with her.















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I know there are no real answers other than tough it out and see where the land lies when I get back home.. CFC is more just a safe place to vent really.

 

[Heretic_Cata]

Hungover again ...

 

[Tee Kay]

Here I wish I have some alcohol.

 

[Synobun]

It's starting to snow.
I have two unit tests today.
My boss wants me to work every day.

 

[Genocidicbunny]

The online registration system for my school crashed cus of so many people at once. So now the 5 minute affair of class registration has become an hour-long one, and there's no end in sight yet. Im missing a decent nights sleep for this crap.

 

[Yared]

So... Tired.

 

[really]

I need to get out more.

 

[Virote_Considon]

The BBC rejected my script.

 

[Sashie VII]

Even now that I'm working, I still stay up for no good reason until morning. I can't break that habit.

 

[raketooy]

I caught the swine flu and have to skip a party today And I'm having an awful headache I was planning to have only tomorrow morning.

 

[Love]

I'm totally sick, you know not so sick that you can't go to school but you can't train.

 

[Narz]

Threesomes, eh? That eliminates the #1 problem with monogamy/exclusivity.

Good luck with that!

 

[Brighteye]

Well, if she has threesomes with you and you find other women attractive openly enough for her to notice, and even act on it, have you considered that your jealousy is misplaced?

She probably considers her actions quite normal and acceptable for your relationship. You seem to have a liberal and enlightened attitude to sex, and so she is acting on that.

If she still loves you and returns to you when you're not away I think that you have a perfect relationship and you should try to control your jealousy, or else not have threesomes and not find other women attractive.

If she prefers other men, she'll stay with them. If she doesn't, she'll stay with you. If she sleeps with others and returns to you, it'll mean far more than if you force her not to and she stays with you because she knows no better.

 

[Bei1052]

You know what will make it all better? Sleeping with someone else. That's a fact.

Do it enough times, and you'll forget all about her. Maybe.

 

[warpus]

You can't force a relationship.

Let her go man.. play it cool. And don't put her on a pedestal.

 

[SS-18 ICBM]

Dude, I'll trade! I'd rather have bloody hot than 40's around here... ugh I would enjoy it more if we had snow, but we don't, it's just cold

With heat, your only option is to go into a cool building. With cold, you can carry a protective layer around you.

 

[History_Buff]

[I'm in my] early 20's

She is young tho (18)

Let it go. When you're that young, relationships are supposed to fail, and they usually do. I'm willing to bet she's just discovering herself as an adult, which means she's not looking to settle down, regardless of what she says.

I'll throw a random bone in here that she also likes girls an we've enjoyed several 3-somes or more.

Threesomes are a stellar way to ruin relationships, and often a symptom of deeper relationship problems. Good that you've done it, and can have that checked off the list of 'stuff to do in life', but don't do that kind of stuff with girls you want to build a future with.

 

[Angst]

I walked into a sign today. It wasn't pleasant.