3am, still unable to sleep, but my brain think something very interesting, now I live in a rented 90 m2 house with 70 m2 building, but a lot of time we discuss about the good old day when we just move to the city, we lived in a studio size apartment 4 family member, the flat possessed a dynamic scent, a scent of whatever we cook that day, but there were lots of interaction and laugh.
I made another realization, when we were visiting my parent's villa with only our family (parents mostly live in the city, close to hospital), 1800 m2 in the country side with a nice mountainous view. The spacious house isolated us most of the time, our body actually only occupied that specific amount of space, so however huge our ambition to enjoy a spacious living space, our body only be able to occupied that much, actually it is pretty pointless, there are lot of corner left not used, empty most of the time, just like a dead living space, whenever we established our favorite spot, the other spot mostly left untouched and empty. During our visit to my parent house, we want to go back to our little house asap.
Now I concluded for myself that, a huge living space (not mansion or palace obiviously they served for a lot of inhabitants) are only a candy to the eyes but will not serve its function as a home, like you saw a beautiful river in a very cold morning, you think it will be cool for you if you jump and swim, while the reality it will be quite a torment, a huge spaces ergonomically speaking, separated the family member that live there, unless they are a bunch of giant, it will hardly served its function as a home.
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