Much thanks and respect @Plotinus for splitting up this topic into its own thread and for replying back to my arguments in a clear and nonpartisan manner.
The fine-tuning argument in itself does not prove that existence of God - in fact, nothing can prove the existence of God in absolute terms as that notion would violate the purpose of life itself (which I'll get to later). What the fine-tuning argument does is make one ponder and wonder and provide a plausible option of an intelligent sentient entity that had designed the universe as such - so that it would permit the building blocks and environments that life requires.
I agree in the sense that the multiverse - if it does exist - would undermine the fine-tuning argument as it is plausible for a universe such as ours to arise from an infinite set of possible universes. However,
no possible astronomical observations can ever exist to "witness" or measure those other universes. So it leads to nowhere.
The multiverse hypothesis is also an indirect answer at best. As even if it exists, it leaves the deep mysteries of nature unexplained and would invoke more questions than it would care to answer.
Which leads us to the question: are these infinitesimally small life-permitting conditions sufficient to create an independent pattern pointing to a Designer?
According to William Dembski's theory for detecting design, one looks for the conjunction of high improbability with an independently given pattern. For example, if you're playing poker and your opponent consistently deals himself the winning hand, you will suspect that he/she' cheating, not simply because of the high improbability of the sequence of cards he gets (any sequence is equally improbable!), but because that highly improbable sequence conforms to the independently given pattern of winning poker hands. As you say, "a royal flush has intrinsic value . . . because the rules of the game define a royal flush as having value before the hand is dealt." That same hand would be worthless were you playing some other game. But given that it is poker that you're playing, that pattern is significant.
As Dembski points out, however, the key factor here is not that the pattern is given in advance ("before the hand is dealt"), but that it is given independently of one's knowledge of the deal. The pattern doesn't need to be given chronologically prior to the deal, so long as it is specified independently of the deal. If we don't require independence, someone looking at the result of the deal can always concoct some game in which the hand dealt is a winner. Such a pattern is "cherry-picked," as they say, to fit the result and therefore is not significant.
Now in the case of intelligent life, the pattern of life-permitting conditions is given independently of and, indeed, long before, cosmologists' discovery of the fine-tuning of the initial conditions of the universe. So the fine-tuning seems to exhibit just that combination of enormous improbability and an independently given pattern that tips us off to design. Thus, in so far as fine-tuning is concerned, it is not the case that "the rules about royal flushes are being made up only after the hand has been dealt.
Now the question that you seem to raise is whether there are not other, independently given patterns which might be used to justify a design inference when applied to the initial conditions of the universe. The problem with this, however, is that these phenomena are not actually observed, and so there is nothing to be explained. What requires explanation is some actually given, independent pattern which is highly improbable. If it exists, Dembski would say that it does warrant a design inference.
Remember that a design inference does not inform us of the purpose for which the observed phenomenon exists. Dembski's design inference demands only an intelligence as an explanation of the phenomenon, but it doesn't presume to tell us the purpose that the intelligent designer had in mind in bringing about that phenomenon. So Dembski's design argument doesn't assert, for example, that the universe was made for the purpose of bringing about human beings. This fact is evident in that the existence of a lowly earthworm also requires an intelligent designer as its ultimate explanation, given its breath-taking improbability and its conformity to an independently given pattern, but we should not infer that the purpose for which the universe exists is therefore earthworms. The idea that the universe was designed for the purpose of man's existence is a theological claim, not a design inference. All the design argument asserts is that human life requires for its explanation an intelligent designer, whatever his purposes may have been, not that the universe was made for man.
Still, one might wonder why we should focus on intelligent life as the pattern with which we're concerned. Why not the pattern required for the existence of, say, crystals? Here I think John Leslie's notion of a tidy explanation may be helpful. For Leslie, "tidy explanation" is a technical term: it is an explanation which, in explaining some phenomenon, reveals that there is something to be explained. Leslie gives a great many charming examples of tidy explanations. For instance, you are shopping in the bazaar, and the silk merchant is displaying for you a drape of silk. His thumb just happens to be covering the moth hole in the cloth. Now of course his thumb has to be somewhere, and any location on the drape is equally improbable; nevertheless—! That he is hoodwinking you provides a tidy explanation of why his thumb happens to be where it is. Or again, Bob, who was born on August 23, 1982, receives a car for his birthday from his wife with the license plate BOB 82382. That this plate number is the result of intelligent design is a tidy explanation of it. In light of the fact that it is Bob's birthday which is being celebrated, one is not being "Bob chauvinistic" in singling out his name and birth date as a significant pattern crying out for explanation. The presence of a tidy explanation of the initial conditions of the universe could similarly justify us in focusing on the conditions requisite for intelligent life as a phenomenon crying out for explanation.
So why not show itself? Presumably we'd still have the choice to not worship or have anything to do with said deity. That would actually be free will.
I see this question often. If God is indeed more than just an imaginary big-daddy-in-the-sky, why does it seem that God is hiding from us? It stands to reason that the inability of anyone to produce a unicorn is a pretty good reason not to believe in unicorns. Why shouldn’t the same standard be applied to God? And if he doesn’t have a physical body, why won’t he at least produce an obvious sign that he is there…like the words “I am God, I am here” written in big flaming letters in the sky?
It all boils down to
free will. If God made us unable to deny his existence, we would be unable to carry on our own lives uninfluenced and completely at free will. The notion of free will itself is therefore destroyed.
Would you openly masturbate in-front of an existing God knowing all well that you'll be cast in Hell for eternity and suffer unimaginable torment by being burned alive? I think not. Therefore, the notion of free will breaks down, and is the reason that God will not prove himself until the assigned time.
Secondly, an Uncaused Cause (i.e. God), if exists, must, by definition, exist beyond the limits of the universe in order to have created it. The laws of physics tell us that we cannot make measurements beyond the limits of this universe. Therefore, scientists can conclusively determine that we cannot ever detect God using any of our instruments.
However, God is not restricted to our limitations and could choose to reveal part of Himself to us. God could not reveal His entirety to us without causing major problems in our universe. The sudden appearance of dimensions and matter from outside the universe would destroy anything in the vicinity and maybe even destroy the entire universe. Having said that, God could reveal His nature by communicating with humans and sending prophets, messengers, etc.
If you're interested in learning more, I recommend reading this book. A book for life, a book for the next life, a book for all eternity, unspoken by man, engulfed by humanity but indescribable of any earthly tongue. I cannot let you understand it, but i can invite you to feel it...
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P.S: I see some have missed me. How amusing.