AL_DA_GREAT
amour absinthe révolution
As long as she doesn't get hurt it shouldn't matter. A more experianced man should satisfy her more.
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22 year old guy wanting to have sex with 16 year old girl
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From the 22 y/o's point of view, yes that's the important part...
The father needs to ask himself the folowing question: If my daughter were male, and the 22y/o was female what would my opinion be?
My guess is he would be far less upset, and that is the approach we must take rather than using a screwed up double standard.
Perfection
The Great Head.
Double standards aren't neccesarily bad things.
GinandTonic
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Legal though possibly slightly distasteful.
JohnRM
Don't make me destroy you
Then so be it. I've drawn my line!
silver 2039
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Because it would be incest?
silver 2039
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Tank_Guy#3
Lion of Lehistan
Yea, if I did that I'd could be charged with rape. I'm 20, so she would be 17 by this rule.
We're talking about Japan here...
Edit: That was vandalism, albeit rather hilarious. It's 13, not 10.
ComradeDavo
Formerly God
On one hand, she's legal, on the other hand personally I think the age gap is too much for a 16 yr old.
Masquerouge
Deity
yeah, that's precisely what I think. I disagree with such relationships not because of the legality of it (legal limits are meaningless anyway) but because of the general maturity difference between a 16yo and a 22yo. Banning the improbable exception, I'm really concerned about a 22yo guy going after a 16yo girl. They're not playing the same game.
Note that this is my view on the general idea of such a relationship, but I fully admit there could be cases in which such a relationship could be ok.
Mirc
Not mIRC!!!
I'm actually annoyed that the AoC here has been upped to 15 from 14, after the fall of the Communism.
(though I'm over this age anyway). It should be 14 like in all the countries in the area (and Italy, and others).
Agreed. What bothers me isnt the 22-16 thing, its the fact that this guy is a total a-hole.
Yeah, i'm sure that will keep her from having sex with a 20 year old when she's 17. It will make an interesting conversation tough: "Honey, i think your starting to look tasty now..."
ahahaha, that was gold. Thank you
And as a father, you can be certain that I'd be sending a clear message to the 22yo (and if he's an unpleasant character, so much the moreso) that he's engaging in risky behavior when pursuing a relationship with my daughter. Ditto if the genders are reversed, by the way.
Angst
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Not in DK...
innonimatu
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Sex simply for sex is just that, what difference does it make if both people are 16 or one is 16 and the other 22? And most 16 years old who have sex are doing it for the sex, certainly not thinking about marriage or commitment - just look at the current average age on (first) marriage in most countries. If they are... well, they'd have to learn, sooner or later.
amadeus
Bishop of Bio-Dome
Sorry there, Nazi-boy, but you don't just "make a mistake" and that's it; if you get pregnant, that's there for the rest of your life.
And have no illusions, abortions don't put the problem to rest too. Women who had abortions are four times as likely to be substance abusers, and 28% have attempted suicide.
Masquerouge
Deity
In my opinion, the risk for -at least- mental abuse and manipulation is too great, and I wouldn't want my kid to do things he/she wouldn't otherwise do just because he/she is doing it with someone they look up too.
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