Also the mother. Do not forget the mother.
The mother does not have any right to destroy human life. The fetus' right to life trumps any right to bodily freedom liberals would like to argue she has.
I have mentioned my faith in other threads, perhaps not as explicitly. You can classify me as a non-Calvinist Protestant and you can qualify my wife(as my personal life/views on abortion seem to be the topic of our exchange here) as Roman Catholic.
I'm shocked your wife can tolerate your heretical opinions on abortion



The comparison to slavery is not similar enough for me to buy in. Slave ownership does not suffer from the same definitional and humanist problems that conception, fatherhood, motherhood, and embryohood/fetushood/babyhood do. Restrictions on slave ownership also do not bring the might of law to bear against largely powerless members of society in the way which reproductive laws do.
Anti-abortion legislation protects the MOST defenseless members of society, the unborn.
I forget if you have mentioned it before, do you support banning abortions in case of ectopic pregnancies where both the mother and the unborn child are certain to die? If you are willing to consider allowing those abortions to be legal my wife certainly would not classify you as "pro-life."
I think I've mentioned this type of thing before, but I've probably said different things at different times. In any case, I think in a case where there is absolutely no scientific or medical means by which to save anyone except via an abortion, I would say in such a rare case that the intent would actually be to save a life, rather than to kill, and so it would be necessary.
However, if there's any chance whatsoever to save both lives, there is a moral, and should be a legal, obligation to choose that path.
You don't have to be a'o.k. with abortion to think that the federal or state governments of the USA should not be the entities which enforce our theological position on pregnancy and life. I believe attempting to use these particular institutions, in fact, sets our cause back and costs, rather than saves, lives.
I fail to see how illegalizing abortion will cause a single innocent person to die that could be saved by any other means, when those means cannot coexist with illegalizing abortion. In other words, there's no case where banning abortion will cause more death, and indeed, it will cause less.
I'll admit not being well-informed about adoption practices, but it makes good sense. Any social stigma that a woman endures by choosing to give birth will encourage abortions. Alleviating that stigma will remove that incentive.
I agree with that. While my personal opinion is sex outside of marriage is a sin, its just that, a sin. Being pregnant is NOT a sin.
This is awfully nasty, and I think, including the posts that follow it, betrays the spirit of the thread.
Abortion threads are always going to be nasty. We can try to minimize it, but I think its a mistake to say that just because we can beat around the bush means that we should. Abortion is murder, its barbaric, and I have absolutely no fear of pointing this out.
Granted, we should always strive to be nice to individuals, but I don't feel any need to give any concessions to the pro-choice side.
So does the word "inconvenient"
It was absolutely convenient to have sex before you were ready (And that goes for the male as well as the female) and it is absolutely wrong.
For what it is worth, I do not believe he is being nasty to me. If anything, I am probably squarely being a heretic in the eyes of some for supporting the same goal he does, in the name of the same religion he does, while not agreeing on the basic terms. I can understand a degree of confusion and/or cognitive dissonance.
I'm not attacking you personally. There are a lot of people that think about abortion in similar terms as you, and I think if the people that thought like you did were willing to legally vote against abortion, it would be very difficult for those who are actually morally OK with abortion to be able to keep it. I think the instutition would either cease to exist or otherwise exist only in very liberal areas if believing abortion was murder actually led to being willing to vote against it.
For my part, I have to admit to being somewhat bemused by somebody attempting to "force me out" of the pro-life camp when I have spent most of my working life advocating, and ultimately pursuing, adoption. This has not been a selfless action on my part - I have received a son, far more than I have invested.

Naturally being 17 and single and in high school adoption would not even be possible for me ATM, but I'm certainly glad you did it
I wouldn't say I'm trying to force you out of the pro-life camp. I'd say I'm trying to force you to decide for yourself what you want to be instead of staying on the fence. Although, obviously, I can't do this.
The thing is, you know the truth in your heart (That abortion is evil and is murder) and you want to see it cease, but you are more than happy to have a government who simply sits by and allows these deaths to happen. That doesn't make sense. Something's got to give.