Narz
keeping it real
Well one thing I like about CFC is that it's not a "specilized forum", at least OT isn't. Sure most of us played Civ at one point but we don't share political views, dietary preferences, locations or worldviews in general. Thats kept this place interesting, well at least a little interesting, whereas more type-specific places I've posted have fallen by the wayside.There's so many other things competing for eyeballs these days. Why create an account and participate on a forum just for Civilization when you can go on the Steam forums with your account and talk about Civilization as well as every other game you play. Why participate in CFC OT when you can tailor the content closer to your liking on something like reddit? Specialist forums are no longer a thing that are in the forefront of your mind if you want to discuss something on the internet.
In real life, its chill hanging out with people who share your values & you can feel relaxed/at-ease with but online that type of relationship doesn't generate many printed characters.One of the forum's less endearing qualities.
I stopped posting, and mostly stopped reading, after I set up my ignore list.
I populated the ignore list with posters I'd decided it was a waste of time to read or engage. OK ... fine. Now I can just talk to the interesting people, right? Yay.
But what were they doing? They were spending most of their time arguing with people I'd decided were a waste of time.
Such threads stopped being amusing rather quickly.
Almost all the interesting topics, IMO, involve discussions DOMINATED by deeply-uninteresting posters. A relatively few posters - a very few - set the tone and quality of many discussions, and not for the better.
It's not a good dynamic.
There are a number of posters I miss discussing things with. But too much time was spent not talking *with* them, but rather talking *at* other posters while they happened to do the same thing. PM's could be used for a little back-channel discussion, but PMs are hardly a replacement for a threaded forum.
Online is just a different world. If you manage to find a forum where people can generate massive amounts of content without fighting do let me know & I'll come check it out, never to return here (except maybe to say hi & lurk once in awhile).
